When I consider friends and family who have been blessed with happy partnerships, I realize there are many roads to establishing a successful relationship. Yet, I also recognize there are a number of common factors that exist throughout the process.

The same, I believe, can be said for the underwriter/broker relationship. While there are many roads leading to success, there is a common set of rules to establishing long-term, productive relationships.

Following are a few observations I have gained during more than 20 years working on the insurance company and brokerage sides of the business.

1. It is a relationship.

Try to find the human endeavor that does not include a relationship, and you are likely to be looking for a long time. The keys to success in just about any relationship also apply to the underwriter/broker relationship: respect, honesty, regard for each other’s abilities, an understanding of each other’s constraints, reasonable expectations, collaboration, communication and consistency.

2. Brokers often play offense, while underwriters typically play defense.

While brokers and underwriters share a common goal—a long-term, mutually profitable relationship—there are also basic differences potentially sabotaging this relationship. A broker, by nature, is usually extroverted, competitive and persistent. On the other hand, an underwriter may be more analytical, possess a more conservative view and be specifically task-focused.

Understanding each other’s points of view allows us to build a trusting, productive relationship.

3. Submission quality is critical.

Each time a broker provides a submission to an underwriter, he or she hopes to receive a timely acknowledgement; however, this response is predicated on the quality of the information provided.

4. Clock management.

Waste, plain and simple, is wrong. It is wrong whether the item being wasted is food, water, money, talent, effort or precious natural resources. It is also wrong when the resource being wasted is time.

Any time a broker takes shortcuts in crafting a submission, he or she is wasting the underwriter’s time. Imagine the underwriter as a quarterback with a finite amount of time left on the game clock. The quarterback has time enough to run only a certain number of plays. The submission sent in by a broker is the equivalent of one of those plays.

By presenting a poorly constructed submission with inadequate detail and information, a broker is using up one of the underwriter’s valuable plays. This is why brokers must help underwriters manage the clock by only sending in opportunities with a reasonable chance for success and “points on the board.”

5. Pick your partners wisely.

As previously noted, it’s a relationship. And, it should go without saying, not everyone was meant to end up together.

Carriers typically have defined areas of expertise and underwriting appetite. Brokers have a responsibility of understanding these parameters but, when appropriate, underwriters should be approached through a phone call or in-person meeting to discuss the interest level and viability of an opportunity. During this process, underwriters have a duty to listen to the story until a final determination can be made.

6. No is not an answer. It is a choice.

Underwriters do not like to say no to a broker’s submission, as there are no winners in this situation. In an ideal world, all submissions would result in a quote being delivered adequately balancing risk with expected return for the carrier. While there will inevitably be the occasional judgment call, a broker who has done his homework regarding both the prospective insured and the underwriter’s appetite for risk will be able to determine with a high degree of confidence whether or not the submission will receive the desired response.

The underwriter, who will typically be long on pending proposals and short on time, will appreciate the consideration shown by a broker who does not clutter his In basket with born losers. In turn, the underwriter should appropriately show appreciation by considering proposals submitted by brokers who have demonstrated a clear understanding of the respective carrier’s underwriting appetite by responding in a timely manner.

7. Work hard for each other.

8. Each party has a job to do.

Although brokers and underwriters are engaged in a mutual effort, each has separate and unique responsibilities. Brokers must continually generate a sufficient flow of high-quality, profitable leads for carriers. They must also service their books of business with dependable back-room support, resulting in long-term client satisfaction. Carriers must maintain financial stability, diverse product offerings and a credible reputation of prompt, amicable claim resolution.

Each party must be able to depend on the other’s consistently earnest effort. It is unjust for the carrier to supply high-quality products while the broker delivers poor-quality service. It is equally unjust for the broker to provide high-quality deliverables while the carrier struggles to deliver on its contractual obligations.

9. Underwriters should leave mystery to the Sphinx.

The more brokers know about an underwriter’s appetite for risk, the better able they will be to deliver reasonable submission flow. Upon rejecting a proposal, the underwriter should clearly specify the reasons to the broker. Do so in a constructive manner meant to help the broker submit stronger, more targeted opportunities in the future. Brokers, on their part, should look past rejection to gain insight potentially resulting in greater opportunities for success.

10. Represent your company while remembering you also represent yourself.

How many of us will work for only one company throughout our career? The answer is a precious few.

While each one of us owes a debt of loyalty to the company whose name is on our paycheck, we must at all times also represent our own sense of right and wrong. Your reputation is the most important thing you possess throughout your professional career.

11. Spread the joy.

Both underwriters and brokers are engaged in the risk management business. It is only reasonable, therefore, that neither party place too many eggs in too few baskets. While diversity for diversity’s sake is not a good idea, establishing multiple high-quality relationships is.

12. Underwriters should take special care to support new brokerages.

The industry needs the large brokerages, regional representatives and the new organizations working to establish themselves. The insurance community will only become stronger with the addition of new brokerage competitors and distribution channels as they pump fresh energy and ideas into the industry.

Be on the lookout for talented newcomers and support them to the extent of your ability. They are the stepping-stones leading all of us to a brighter future for the community as a whole.

13. Respect the confidentiality of each relationship.

Each broker works with many underwriters, just as each underwriter works with multiple brokerages. Honoring the confidentiality of each relationship is not only the right thing to do; it is the smart thing to do.

The betrayal of a confidence can lead to the loss of trust, irreparably damaging a productive, profitable relationship.

14. Remember to have fun.

Each spring, our company hosts an annual party to which we invite underwriters. We see this as an opportunity to express our gratitude to the underwriting community and celebrate our mutual successes.

We are on a shared journey with our carrier partners, and like all journeys this one becomes more enjoyable if we can have a few laughs together.